You Can’t Cook from the Other Room My friend Annie in the Bronx uses an expression that translates roughly from Yiddish as, “You can’t cook from the other room.” She offers these words to me when I make an offhand comment about something that I wish could be different, or that I would like to do but haven’t gotten around to doing yet. If I venture into “coulda-woulda-shoulda” territory, she responds with the words, “Jody, you can’t cook from

Our Hope of Heaven One of our favorite worship songs at PWC is I Can Only Imagine, by Bart Millard of MercyMe, who penned the song after the death of his father. The lyrics resonate profoundly with all of us who have lost a loved one. Why? Because it sings of HOPE…our hope of heaven. It paints a striking glimpse of life after death…of meeting Jesus face to face…of eternal life in our heavenly home…our HOPE. There are basically two

Hope for Joy One of the greatest joys of my life is to be a father on Christmas morning.  I carry on the tradition that my father did when we were kids.  No one was allowed downstairs until he went out to make sure all was clear, and that Santa made it out safely.  As children we were so overwhelmed with joy that we were jumping up and down with anticipation of what might be under the Christmas tree

For so many years, my life was super busy.  I had three full time jobs, lived at the most active church in Arizona, and had tons of friends who wanted to spend time together.  I enjoyed my life, but I would often think to myself, “I wish I had some peace and quiet.”  Then, all my bad stuff happened.  And, what happened was that I had a ton of quiet, but no peace.  It was then I realized that

Hope for Wisdom One of my favorite Christmas Carols is the song, “Do You Hear What I Hear.” It was written in 1966 by Noel Regney and Gloria Shayne. The song was a prayer for peace during the Cuban Missile Crisis and calling people to put God first again in their lives. The song tells the story of the birth of Christ and the signs that lead up to the world knowing of the great miracle of God’s Love.

I can’t believe it is ADVENT!  Christmas is right around the corner.  As we get older, it is true, time seems to pass more quickly.  Before we know it, our Christmas trees will be put up and taken down.  The Christmas shopping bills will be due, and we will be facing 2024. For Advent this year our them is a Matt Maher song called, “Hope for Everyone.”  No doubt, we all want hope.  No one wants to live in

The Meaning of Thanksgiving Day Thanksgiving Day will shortly be upon us. For many, Thanksgiving is a celebration to spend with family, friends, and for a lot of people, football. But, on this special day it should be all about gratitude and most of all, giving thanks to Jesus. The meaning of Thanksgiving Day needs to be centered on gratitude, urging people, young and old, to look inward at what they have instead of outwards at what they want

Perspective Perspective: a particular attitude toward, or way of regarding something; a point of view. I feel like I have a wide range of perspective on many areas of life, such as people that I follow on social media, political parties, cultural traditions, Christians, unbelievers, people who are like me, those who are not like me, even very different from me.  Why? I feel this is important. I want to gain perspective. All of us were created in the

Chapel of the Holy Cross For those who have read my previous reflections they usually begin with, “As many of you know, we travel often.” This one is no different, but this time we are more local, Sedona. We spend several weeks in the summer in Sedona.  On this trip John and I went back to visit the famous Chapel of the Holy Cross.  It was afternoon we were thinking it wouldn’t be crowded.  Wrong.  There was a mass

Thoughts on the New Creation: Will It Ever Rain? It rained last night: While I was restless; while I was quiet; while I listened. The thunder and lightning flashed and hurled their clapping hands together and kept me awake. I didn’t look out my window or opened the shades to fain an interest. I knew what it meant, opening the blinds would make no difference only require an intrusion upon what nature and God had designed to happen. I

The Big Power of Small Gestures Ten years ago, Fr. Dale and I put together a little book called Kindness Matters: Hospitality in a Hostile World. (Available at The Cross Shop, Amazon.com, or Barnes & Noble). Our intent was to encourage all of us to take a fresh look at how well we are doing being true hosts in a diverse and complicated world. The hope was – and still is -- that we seek ways to accept the

Fall: Changing of Seasons Fall has always been one of my favorite seasons of the year. Growing up in Iowa, everyone looked forward to fall by the leaves, and trees changing colors. The crimson, gold, forest green and orange foliage seemed to sprout up everywhere setting the stage for cooler months ahead. The month of October definitely begins the rush for fall decorations, planting of fall flowers, the smell of apple cider, caramel apples, pumpkin coffees, cookies, candles or

Today I want to share with you my time of Praise and Worship that I try and do daily.  I find it also a time of prayer, a time of connecting with God by praying through hymns and worship songs.  I really feel like praying through music it not only opens a door for me to talk to God, but also a time for the Holy Spirit to talk to me.  What more can I ask for?  When I decided

The Christian Church today has become emotionless. So many denominations have lost the passion, joy, and intense love the early Christians seemed to have had. It was passion that drove the early apostles to take the message of Christ to places they never dreamed of going. St. Paul was on of the most passionate believers who ever lived. His passion led him to suffer, sacrifice, serve, and preach even when it put his own life in danger. And, through it

As a young adult I realized that I was being called to live a committed single life rather than being called to married life. My faith was strong. I believe that was the result of receiving the gift of faith after asking for that gift at a Life in the Spirit seminar shortly after high school. However, lacking strong family bonds, I came to focus on my non-blood relative(s) friendships as the ties that bind. I made sure that my

We Shall Never Forget As I sit down to write this reflection, I am mindful that this week we will mark the 22nd anniversary of the tragedy of 9/11. Today I share with all of you in living out the rally cry, “WE SHALL NEVER FORGET. In the first days after the Sept. 11 attacks, a team of scholars around the country set out to capture the moment’s “flashbulb” memories: the vivid, enduring mental snapshots formed at the instant

One Day Changes Everything...There is a song that I enjoy listening to when life seems overwhelming and chaotic, it’s called “One Step Away” by Matthew West. The message behind the song is that you are always one step away from God, nothing in your life is bigger than God, and God always wins!When I found out that my reflection was going to post on 9/11, my first thought was I need to recognize what that day means to our country

Miracle BrideSome people call it fate, some call it destiny, and some people say you create your path. Others call the things that happen to us miracles. Some say we are given doors of opportunity every day. The ones we decide to open and walk through make up our life. I happen to believe in God and miracles, both!I graduated from Bloom Township High School (Chicago Heights, Illinois) in 1966 and went to college for a year. I was bored

The Real Thing…They said you could taste it – when it was the real thing.  It was back in the 1970s.  And it was the marketing theme of a soft drink competing in a jumble of other similar products all claiming to be just as good as “the real thing.”  And, suddenly, I began to even hear the catchy little song that went along with it (“It’s the real thing … la de da, la de da …“).It came back

I was shown an article last week entitled “Five Things That You Should Never Say to Your Kids.”  Considering Father’s Day, I thought this might be a great one for me to read.  I was really hoping as I read the article I would never saying any of those things to my own children.  Here is the list that was shared: “I don’t believe in you.” Research has shown that knowing that someone (in this case a dad) believes in

Revival I am talking a lot about revival.  Or, as I like to refer to it, “revive-all.”  You might be wondering why I am talking about it at this time.  There are two main reasons: There seems to be some kind of movement happening in our country. It started in a strong way at Asbury College and is now pouring over to other colleges and universities. My inner spirit tells me we are at a critical point in our

Comfort Comes from Unexpected Places For anybody who has lost their child, it is difficult to know where relief can be found. Family and friends do what they can with the words they can summon. Some may disappear because they are uncomfortable with the entire situation, not because they are truly indifferent. The casseroles and flowers arrive, and are accepted with both gratitude and numbness. It is a surreal time, even if the death of a son or daughter

A Reflection on Psalm 23 All are the first line of the Psalm 23. “Yahweh is my best friend and my shepherd.  I always have more than enough.” The Passion Bible. “The Lord is my shepherd; there is nothing that I lack.”  New American Bible. Also Catholic Study Bible. “God, my shepherd: I don’t need a thing.”  The Message Bible. “O my beloved.  You are my shepherd; I shall not want.”  N. Merrill’s Praying the Psalms. Read each one

Living without Comfort As we prepare for Pentecost, I have been reflecting on my Lent and Easter season. The day after Ash Wednesday, I injured my finger and quickly found myself not being able to use my left hand. As an independent woman, who is used to taking care of myself and others, I started asking for help with the littlest things, and I realized I was really uncomfortable, but didn’t know what to do next. When Fr. Dale hosted

Change is in the wind. Apply that to our local environment and it could be change is in the stillness and dry heat of the desert. A couple of months ago, during Lent, our Praise and Worship Center (PWC) offered a series entitled the School of Change. I like to think of myself as a lifelong learner and I look forward to all of the amazing “Schools” that are offered. This one was no exception. We even had an exceptional