Ashley Hill’s Reflection

What is Humility?

To me, humility means recognizing that we are not always right—and being at peace with that reality. Webster defines humility as “the quality or state of not thinking you are better than another person.” We may possess a great deal of knowledge, but others may hold different perspectives or experiences that are equally valuable.

As a teacher, I’ve seen how two instructors can explain the same concept in different ways. A student might finally grasp an idea after hearing another teacher’s explanation. In that moment, should we feel frustration—or gratitude that the student now understands? A great teacher chooses gratitude, respect, and the willingness to learn from others.

Proverbs 16:18 reminds us that “Pride goes before destruction, and a haughty spirit before stumbling.” This is true in every part of life. Pride can prevent us from asking for or accepting help, ultimately undermining our success. Harshness toward those who try to help us may leave us without support when we need it most.

I’ve struggled with asking for help myself, fearing it would show weakness. But on a recent mission trip to Guatemala, I truly learned what it means to be both humble and a servant leader. I helped a family build a shelter—something that, through my American eyes, seemed modest, but to them was the most magnificent home they could imagine. Seeing the relief and joy on the mother’s face, knowing her children would now sleep under a roof, was humbling and inspiring.

Distributing food to children during Vacation Bible School and learning about their culture was life-changing. I’ll never forget speaking with a 14-year-old girl who was preparing to be married within months. She was surprised when I told her my 14-year-old nephew was still in school and not yet married. That moment reminded me that our perspectives are shaped by the world we live in, and that approaching others with an open mind leads to deeper understanding.

If I had gone on that trip believing I was “better” than the people I met, the experience would have been empty. Instead, I went with the mindset of a servant leader—an oath I took when I became a Master Instructor in Taekwondo, pledging to serve every student of the ATA. I strive to carry that commitment into all areas of my life.

I encourage everyone to embrace humility and servant leadership. No matter how big or small the gesture, there is always something you can do to serve others. And in doing so, you will grow as a person, a leader, and a human being.